Episode
24

#1 Parenting Psychologist: Hormones, Step-Parenting & Divorce

with
Dr. Aliza Pressman
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If your home is juggling teens, stepparent dynamics, and even caring for aging parents, this conversation gives you a clear, rules-based plan you can use across all of it.

Dr. Aliza Pressman is a developmental psychologist, co-founder of the Mount Sinai Parenting Center, and author of The 5 Principles of Parenting. She lays out what works in blended homes, co-parenting, and hormonal seasons so your house runs on calm and consistency, not crisis. You’ll learn how to align expectations across two homes, set stepparent boundaries that build trust, and protect everyone’s nervous system when hormones run high.

They talk about:
  • How to balance kids, stepparent dynamics, and elder care without burning out
  • Stepparent boundaries and practical language that build trust
  • Ways to keep rules and consequences consistent across two homes
  • How to use repair before discipline and what that looks like in practice
  • Phone and sleep limits that reduce reactivity and improve moods
  • A 5-minute reset to use before tough conversations
  • How to split the mental load so it actually feels fair
  • How to spot your triggers and stay regulated when hormones run high

This isn’t about perfect parenting. It’s about a steady plan you can use tonight to make a blended, hormonal household feel sane again.

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Dr. Aliza Pressman

Dr. Aliza Pressman, developmental psychologist, lays out what works in blended homes, co-parenting, and hormonal seasons so your house runs on calm and consistency, not crisis.

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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.

0:00 Intro

03:05 The Science of Resilience and Why It’s Not Just “Grit”

05:28 The Five Principles of Parenting (and Relationships)

10:28 Why Repair Makes Relationships Stronger Than Perfection

15:32 Self-Compassion, Grace, and the “Good Enough” Parent

20:49 Surviving a Hormonal Household: Teens + Menopause

27:24 Parenting in the Age of Social Media and AI

30:18 Stretching vs. Breaking: Knowing When to Step In

31:45 The Sandwich Generation: Caring for Kids and Aging Parents

36:52 Why Intergenerational Bonds Are So Powerful

39:20 Step Parenting Without Resentment or Power Struggles

43:07 Real-Life Q&A: College Doubts, Disappearing Teens, and Blended Families

52:10 Why “B-Minus Parenting” Might Be the Healthiest Choice

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