Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build.
In this solo episode, Tamsen Fadal breaks down the practical tools that helped her rebuild her confidence after years of negative comments, self-doubt, and overthinking. From the email that stuck with her for years to the everyday habits that changed everything, she shares the exact framework she uses to interrupt doubt before it spirals.
Consider this your playbook for those moments when doubt gets loud and you don’t want it running the show.
You’ll learn how to:
- Interrupt rumination using a simple CBT-based reset you can do anywhere
- Stop negative thoughts before they turn into “I’m not enough”
- Build real confidence through preparation and repetition
- Use the “one promise” habit to rebuild self-trust brick by brick
- Shift your posture and presence in two minutes to change how you feel in any room
By the end of this episode, you’ll understand that confidence isn’t about never doubting yourself. It’s about knowing what to do when doubt shows up and choosing not to let it decide who you are.
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Tamsen Fadal breaks down the practical tools that helped her rebuild her confidence after years of negative comments, self-doubt, and overthinking. From the email that stuck with her for years to the everyday habits that changed everything, she shares the exact framework she uses to interrupt doubt before it spirals.
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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.
00:00 Intro
04:17 Why Negative Feedback Sticks
05:33 Negativity Bias Explained, Why Your Brain Holds Onto Criticism
06:28 How to Stop Overthinking with a CBT Tool to Interrupt Rumination
09:56 The Confidence-Competence Loop and Why Preparation Builds Real Self-Belief
12:18 How to Feel More Confident in Public Speaking, Dating, or the Gym
16:48 The One Promise Habit to Build Self-Trust One Small Win at a Time
19:45 Harvard Power Posing Research and How Body Language Changes Your Confidence
21:57 4 Practical Confidence Tools You Can Use Today








