If you’ve been through a heartbreak, a divorce, or a relationship that just quietly fell apart and you’re trying to figure out what comes next, this episode is for you.
In this candid solo Q&A, Tamsen answers the dating questions women in midlife are actually asking but rarely say out loud. Whether you’re freshly out of something painful, years removed and still not sure, or back on the apps and already confused, this conversation meets you exactly where you are. Because dating at this stage of life is different, and most of the advice out there wasn’t made for you.
You’ll learn how to:
- Stop checking his profile and what to do instead the moment you feel the urge
- Tell the difference between being healed and just being numb
- Know whether to give a second date to someone who didn’t give you butterflies
- Spot the early signs of a narcissist before you’ve already fallen
- Have the conversation you’ve been too afraid to start
Getting back on the dating scene is one of the most uncharted experiences women navigate alone. If this conversation made you feel less alone in it, we’d love to hear from you.
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Tamsen Fadal
If you’ve been through a heartbreak, a divorce, or a relationship that just quietly fell apart and you’re trying to figure out what comes next, this episode is for you.
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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.
00:00 Intro
01:15 How to Stop Checking Your Ex’s Social Media After a Breakup
04:00 How to Know If You’re Healed or Just Numb After a Breakup
05:47 Why You Feel Nothing on Dates And If That’s a Red Flag
07:00 Should You Go on a Second Date Without Chemistry
07:43 Is It Okay to Date Multiple People at Once After 50
09:00 How Many People Should You Be Talking To?
10:34 How to Spot a Narcissist Early in Dating
12:38 How It Feels To Date A Narcissist
16:25 Is It a Red Flag If He’s Never Been Married at 50+









