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It’s not your imagination. Something’s changing and it’s time men finally understood what that really means.
The Men’s Guide to Menopause is the first of its kind: a no-BS, science-meets-real-life guide to understanding menopause, perimenopause, hormones, hormone therapy, and everything else no one ever explained about women’s health in midlife.
Tamsen sits down with the leading OB-GYNs, urologists, menopause specialists, neuroscientists, and more to explain what’s really going on, from the hormone shifts behind mood, sleep, and sex to the science that can actually make it better.
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Here’s what you’ll learn about in this episode:
- What’s actually happening to women’s hormones during perimenopause and menopause
- How hormone therapy works and when to consider it
- Why brain fog, mood swings, and sleep issues happen, and how to help
- How menopause changes intimacy and libido, and what can make it better
- The science behind testosterone and vaginal estrogen for women
- What doctors often miss about menopause and how to advocate for better care
Whether it’s your partner, your mom, your sister, your friend, or your coworker, every woman deserves to be understood.
Because when you finally get it, you don’t just understand her, you become a #ManOfThePause.
0:00 Intro
01:23 Why Menopause Is More Than Hot Flashes
02:18 The Basics: What Perimenopause and Menopause Actually Are
04:31 The Most Common Symptoms of Perimenopause (Dr. Mary Claire Haver)
07:04 Why Perimenopause Is So Misunderstood (Dr. Sharon Malone)
14:11 Why Most Doctors Never Learn About Menopause (Dr. Heather Hirsch)
18:00 The Mood Shifts That Can Shake a Relationship
19:10 How Hormones Affect the Brain (Dr. Lisa Mosconi)
23:11 The Brain Scans That Prove Menopause Is Neurological
28:36 The Truth About Sex and Midlife (Dr. Kelly Casperson)
32:20 Vaginal Estrogen 101
34:09 Hormones, Testosterone & The Truth About Libido
37:08 How to Actually Help Her Without Trying to Fix Her
38:05 Why Sleep Is the First Thing to Fall Apart (Dr. Shelby Harris)
40:00 What to Say to Start the Conversation
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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.
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